ښځه او حقوق ئې (۱۵ برخه) حکمتيار

Salam Mr. Hekmatyar,

You are arguing on traditional basis, which rarely makes sense in the age of knowledge and information. For your first paragraph, let me add that the number of men is higher than women in China and India, so what these individuals should be doing. Are you suggesting sharing wife (polyandry).

I understand that the number of women in certain Muslim country is higher, but majority of them are getting old due conflicting demands or societal restrictions and staying unmarried. Let me give you an example, statistics from Saudi Arabia shows that there around 2.5 million women between ages 18 and 45 who are NOT married, which means that these women are spiritless beings of the society due to many strict religious factors.

Your bird example is practical for the birds. It is natural. However, men and women are not birds. Let me tell you that some birds even mourn their deaths for weeks, others stay with their part for life like penguin, some makes thousand of noises to attract their partners, and some are choosing their partners by show off, exposing and dancing like “TAUS”. Then you should know that there are some animals like a bitch “Speiy not SPAY (dog)”, which love to have sex with multiple males or monkeys who choose the strongest fit in their commune, so look at the whole picture of the nature not selective parts that suit your imagination. I understand that you can convince some people with incomplete argumentations.

I understand that Western Countries have their own issues, but with much more better legal, social, economic and stable framework. However, the Muslim countries are not even in a comparable position with the West. Let me tell you an interesting law that is being study in one of the Western Society, which wants to make a criminal offence “sending intimate pictures of an individual without his or her consent to another person”, which means with advances of technologies and science we are facing new challenges therefore we need updates in life. Those nominal concepts proposed by you or other religious leaders are not practically existent in the society. I mean who will marry 4 wife if he can have one normal wife. Majority of people are married to one wife. Let’s first improve our life with one wife, then talk about multiple wives. We control individuals while we claim that we give them rights. You always try to put emphasis on the West for wrongs that are originating from own societies. It is the same when our Afghans do not learn, do not educate and do not developed, but they blame everyone else for all the wrongdoings in the society.

Mr. Hekmatyar,
I understand that you are well positioned as a leader, so you can enlighten others in many practical, positive and directive ways. Forget basing your hypothesis on the West, but let your followers learn how to treat, respect and understand and implement women rights or privileges. We live once, we ought to live meaningfully, so we get rid of miseries or regrets.

Rogh Jan,
Let clarify some points for you. It is true that gays are being licensed to live together. There are many people in these societies who agree or disagree with it. However, it is not like a Third World country like Afghanistan where people rape or use boys for their pleasure. Look at all documentaries about bacha bazi, which is called Pedophilia in the West and you go to jail for it. If you do not want to see it, then it is your problem not a Western Phenomenon.

Your another point that women are toys is very simplified. Women in the West have many rights that we do not have it even for the men in our society. You cannot go and play with a woman just like a toy. Do not do it or you will go to jail for it. I am not joking. Controlling other’s life is NOT a right, so we need to distinguish. When you talked about gang bangs or rapes, these things happen in many societies due to many factors. If you live in the West, you cannot just go to assault, rape or abuse woman as an object. If you are talking about prostitution, I believe look our own societies lplace in Kabul, Mazar or Herat or even Karachi. These issues have their roots in our societies not the WEST.

The number of men less or more does not make sense. You can change the balance and it is possible. Maybe, one day you will have less people dying, the balance can change or due to other factors. If you talk about the West, the general population is declining, but it does not mean that you can justify to marry all these men or woman.

What I am saying life has changed while we are arguing about or proposing the same ideas. You guys have to look at the whole picture of the society you live in than finger point at the West. Let’s there is no West, is our issue solved? What if China takes our, are we going to change? NO, NO, NO…

All we do is getting into a circular arguments, finger pointing and blame games. What we need to improve our life? We can have use our brain enlighten ourselves and to find the answers than appealing to our emotions!